A garden is not for show

Dear parents and colleagues,

Every year, some Year 13 students approach me to read their personal statements as they prepare to apply for university. Earlier this month, I came across a statement that truly stood out. This particular student is applying to study Mathematics, and as a mathematics teacher myself, I might be just a little biassed!

What struck me was how his passion for the subject shone through without the need to include all the books he read or the YouTube videos he had watched. He did not need to prove his intelligence by listing every mathematical resource he had encountered throughout his school life. What mattered most was the slow, steady nurturing of his interest, like a plant slowly taking root and growing stronger over time.

This idea connects well with Stoic philosophy, which is not about showing off or impressing others, but about developing a life of virtue. When we push our children, or even ourselves, to rush through learning or life just to impress others, we forget that true growth takes time. It is like trying to force fruit to ripen before its season. It may look good on the outside, but the taste is not there yet.

Growing a garden to feed a family is a more meaningful and rewarding use of time than tending one just to impress the neighbours. A garden requires consistent care, patience and time. This gradual, steady process is what prepares us for the inevitable winters of life. By growing deep roots, we, and our children, will be strong enough to withstand those difficult seasons when they come.

When we focus on the quiet work that goes on underground, we build the foundation for real success, one that lasts regardless of how impressive things may appear on the outside.

The best gardens are not for show!

Francisco Escobar
Principal & Head of Pastoral Care